貌合神离表面上很亲密而实际上怀有二心。英be apparently acquiescing while countrary-minded; be friendly apparently but in fact not; seemingly in harmony but actually at variance;[查看详情]

若存若亡有时记在心里有时则忘记掉。《老子》：“上士闻道勤而行之；中士闻道，若存若亡；下士闻道，大笑之。”后用以形容若有若无难以捉摸。[查看详情]

敬而远之虽然敬重但不愿与之接近。英stay at a respectful distance from sb.;[查看详情]

不即不离佛教用语不接近亦不远离(指人际关系)英keep sb.at a respectful distance;[查看详情]

半推半就推：抵拒、推辞；就：凑近、靠近。又推辞又靠近。形容假意推辞拒绝的样子。例想来九公必实意要收的与其学那俗态半推半就，耽搁工夫据俺主意，不如实收了倒也爽快。——《镜花缘》李方哥半推半就的接了。程朝奉正是会家不忙见接了银子，晓得有了机关。——《二刻拍案惊[查看详情]